Lately we’ve been sharing
how you can put a positive spin on a difficult or negative work
experience. Today we’re going to share a
third story, one that shows that you can learn from your mistakes.
Negative Spin
My last position was at a
small company that had created an interesting and innovative product. The goal was to negotiate a contract with a
large corporation and to eventually sell the company. The product wasn’t complete and it had some
weak spots that we tried to hide. Most
of the employees at my company spoke Russian, but the other company’s
representatives were all American.
During one of the joint meetings, one employee said to his peer sitting
next to him, in Russian, “They are such idiots!
Let’s hope they don’t ask us about the “black box!” At the conclusion of the meeting, one of the
members of the other team thanked everyone for meeting, in Russian! We were not able to make a deal with them,
most likely because of that comment.
This is not a company I am happy to be a part of and thus I’m seeking a
new position.
Positive Spin
While the facts of the
story above remain the same, you can put a positive spin on it by explaining
how even a big mistake can have a positive outcome:
As a result, we had to work
harder as a team and re-focus our efforts on improving the product. Personally, I have learned several things from
that experience. I don’t make
assumptions about people I meet and I have learned to never underestimate a
team that I am negotiating with.
Furthermore, while the loss
of this deal was devastating at the time, we were eventually able to spin-off
the department and create a new successful company!
Conclusion
Even though this story
highlights a big lapse in judgment, the ability to learn from your mistakes, or
those of your team, is an important and valuable skill. Furthermore, the ability to re-group and
re-focus one’s efforts after such a “failure” shows both resilience and a
positive attitude.